I won't post a link to it, because someone has to know what this man doesn't:
- you don't humiliate people
- you especially don't do it publicly
- your particularly don't humiliate your wife on the Internet.
Follow up: my wife and I were discussing this video on Friday night. I think she thought I was testing her, when what I was really doing was a) bemoaning this husband's attitude, and b) reaffirming that I no longer have such an attitude toward her. She also thought we'd discussed this video already, which I'd never seen prior to Friday afternoon.
We all have our strengths and weaknesses. An emotionally healthy person, who isn't dependent on what Fr. Spitzer calls the comparative identity for his sense of self worth, doesn't build himself up at the expense of the people he loves by demonstrating their weakness.
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