Could it be that questions tell us more than answers ever do? - Michael Card, Could it Be?
Sometimes they do, if we pay enough attention to them. I have a friend who just publicly wondered why, years after moving into her current home, she is just now unpacking some boxes. I think she's likely to find an answer to what caused her to be doing so now, and she might find therein a surface answer to why she hasn't done so previously.
But the reasons beyond the surface are probably worthy of a bit of her consideration, not in the sense of revealing any major personality flaw, but in the sense of "how we learn to be the best-version-of-ourselves in small ways." It's the small choices that each of us makes daily which most often stunt our growth and thereby serve as the greatest barriers to us in our lives and our relationships.
And that's as true for me as for anyone.
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