ouch

that felt like rejection.
i really wasn't trying to get closer, or share inappropriately. i think we pretty much agree on where those boundaries should be, and i was just pointing out that i was staying on this side of them and was trying not to lean on you. 
maybe you didn't mean for your agreement with that to feel terse or harsh, but it did. 
or maybe you felt that i was over the line already, in which case i am sincerely sorry; i was trying very hard not to be.