Even if I was in a bad mood - and I was, a little - I was just trying to hear the movie.  Yes, to me, there is a difference between watching a movie together and watching a TV show.

And yes, it upset me when you implied I was being unreasonable in asking the two of you not to talk during the movie.  And when you got caught dismissing my concerns because I was "in a mood," it upset me that you further dismissed my right to be upset about it, by texting your complaint to the wrong phone.  If you'd rather not spend time with me when I'm "in a mood," then don't.  And yes, when you texted me that you were sorry, and I called you back, and you were still clearly mad at me, that upset me, too.  And the next night, when we tried to discuss it and you immediately shifted the discussion to what you thought I did wrong to cause the whole thing in the first place, that just pissed me off.